Solving Problems


Unfortunately there are many different things that can go wrong – with the Mum, with the Dad, with the Baby, or other family members. Getting the appropriate help for the problem – as early as possible – may be able to help minimize the effect. This is a very difficult time for coping with problems – you have already got enough on your hands – but often LIFE doesn’t ask us if we are ready to deal with more problems – they may arrive and need to be dealt with. As soon as possible – bring the problem/difficulty to the attention of your Health Care Professional, who in turn may be able to guide you to someone/ some organization best suited to dealing with that type of problem.

If you are not happy with what you hear – get a second opinion. If there is a support group for your sort of problem – make contact with the group – this could save you making a lot of mistakes yourself.

We hope that the below parenting insights will make your life easier!

Parenting Insights


Advice for a new Mom and Dad

Try at least once a day when your baby is asleep to have a rest or a sleep yourself - this is one of the most invaluable tips I can give read more...

All that helpful conflicting advice – What to do with it

Firstly, accept the fact that suddenly everyone you meet is going to be an expert on YOUR BABY - even if they have never met you before. read more...

Baby care - does it come naturally

If you have never been surrounded by babies, or had to care for new born babies - how are you supposed to know what their very special requirements are? read more...

Crying – Learning to understand what your newborn baby is trying to communicate to you

Newborn Babies cry - eat - and sleep - and that’s pretty much all they do for the first few weeks - and in no particular order either. read more...

Crying because of discomfort

Wind/gas is what usually will cause discomfort in a newborn baby. read more...

Crying because something is really wrong

When something is really wrong - a baby crying in pain will not usually just stop - unless he/she is really weak. It is usually a persistent cry, which does not stop no matter what you try. read more...

Crying because the diaper or nappy needs changing

How will you know if this is the problem - LOOK inside the diaper/ nappy and the secret will be revealed. read more...

Crying because your baby is hungry

Usually the baby will be trying to suck his/her fist, or anything else that comes in contact with their mouth - often they will twist their head around searching for the nipple. read more...

Crying because your baby is uncomfortable

Your newborn baby can’t tell you that his arm is caught under him, or that he has rolled onto his tummy and is having trouble breathing, or that he is now too hot or cold, or wet. read more...

Crying because your baby needs comforting

Sometimes your newborn baby just needs to be held and comforted - he/she may have a full tummy, a dry bottom, but may just want a cuddle read more...

Exploding the Fantasy

THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE - AND IS - THE MOST WONDERFUL EXPERIENCE IN YOUR LIFE!!! read more...

Get help when you need it

Unless you grew a second pair of arms (hands attached) while you were delivering your baby - the answer is YES - You WILL NEED HELP. read more...

How to survive those early weeks

Who ever thought that we would be talking about surviving - when we have just been through THE MOST MIRACULOUS EXPERIENCE in the world - but that’s the truth of the matter read more...

Is it Normal to feel this way

Do you feel like you are on the greatest Roller Coaster Ride of your life - and someone throws you a baby, and says "Look after this most precious baby while you’re there"?? read more...

Keeping the house clean and tidy

What is more important: keeping up appearances, or getting to know and understand your newborn baby, and caring for yourself, so that you can keep caring for your baby. read more...

Mother’s Groups and baby Groups

I didn’t even know much about these before I had my own baby. The local community/infant health nurse will usually try to get a group of first time Mums/Dads together. read more...

Never Underestimate the value and importance of caring for your baby

This is most probably THE most important experience in your life - and also your baby’s most important experience. read more...

Special Problems – Special Solutions

Unfortunately there are many different things that can go wrong – with the Mum, with the Dad, with the Baby, or other family members. Getting the appropriate help for the problem – as early as possible – may be able to help minimize the effect. read more...

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